Bad moms

There are several ways to be a bad mom. I have seen several bad moms. I will describe a few who have personally stuck with me through the years.

Mom 1- getting pregnant doesn't strike every woman the same way. A drinker for example got pregnant and stopped drinking and everyone praised her for it. The baby came and the stress of it was to much for her and she started drinking again. She slept through the baby crying and let the little one rash because of sitting in its own filth. The baby didn't even have a crib of its own to sleep in and slept in bed with mom which is usually not a bad thing because the mom has so many instincts which kick in after birth. However she was numbing all her instincts with boos. One night she passed out along side her sleeping infant and when she woke up in the morning she was on top of her limp cold child. The prosecution of the event put her on probation for the death of her child. When she got pregnant again she vowed Never to let a travesty like that happen again. When she passed out drunk again beside her new little one she again awoke upon a unconscious baby. This woman is a bad mom.

Mom 2- this woman had four children. Her first and second children were by the same father. They were unsupervised and got into their parents stash of weed which was of a hefty amount playing and eating the greens while their dad was passed out in the other room. The mom did what she thought was best for herself not to get in trouble for the incident and left the dad. The parents had bought several homes and vehicles with the dads money and the mom took everything from him in the divorce ruthlessly in front of the children leaving lasting scars into there adulthood. This was not the end of their torment however they were shuffled by plane between their parents for visitation but the mother kept full custody. She sold all the properties and bought herself a large farmhouse on a couple acres of land where home improvements could be made to make it livable. At this point she had married a new man and had her third son. Her second son got himself thrown in juvenile hall for burning down a house. Her first son was being forced to take care of the smallest boy and do much of the physical labor to fix the house which remained trashed constantly and caked with dirt for its size was approx. 2500 sq ft. All while he was to be attending school and keeping up with school work in junior high. When his grades dropped he was punished because it made her look like a bad mom. After her fourth son was born she wanted the younger boys to be perfect since her first marriage boys weren't. They were not made to do anything. The third boy started going wherever he wanted without anyone knowing where he was or caring. The oldest boy left tired of his mothers poor behavior. The father left to a different state and made a good life for himself which left the mom with bills she couldn't afford. She was forced into a smaller home when she filled bankrupt. The oldest boy was disgusted that his mother spent her money going out and having fun leaving his youngest brothers unsupervised instead of putting the money into the home where he was forced to make so many childhood sacrifices for. Over the years she had filled all the rooms in the enormous home with furniture and couldn't part with any and became a super hoarder. Her third son decided to live with his dad and her youngest son is left home alone daily amid the mess eating microwaveable foods while his mom partys calling herself a good mom. This woman is a bad mom.

Mom 3- This woman has a daughter who she is very close to. The mother starts dating a man who is a hard worker, loves her daughter and her. They get married and everything is going well. One night the husband goes into the daughters room and touch and rubs himself on the girl. He does this several times over the course of a month and the girl finally tells her mom however the husband makes a story about sleep walking and mistaken identity. The moms asks the daughter if the husband can stay. She takes moms side and the abuse continues. Scared that the mom won't do anything the daughter says nothing more and years go by. The daughter moves out being old enough and comes out with the hole story and makes a police report and he pleads guilty but the mom stays with him because she has started a new family with him a little boy. The mom communicates only with the new family and rejects her own. This woman is a bad mom.